Community Letters to Girls
Are you a GUY with something positive to say to all the girls out there committed to serving God wholeheartedly by living purely, dressing modestly, and waiting on His timing for romance?
Here's the place to do it!
60) 6/9/08 - Thom (23), United Kingdom
A note of encouragement to all you who save yourselves for your future husband; You are all the more beautiful for doing so. You are beautiful because you are waiting with God.
Even while writing this, God gave me a picture of Him as a loving father restraining His young daughter, making her wait just a little longer before releasing her so she could run and greet her friend.
God holds you because you're safe in His arms. One day He plans to let you go because He knows that the person He lets you go to will bring you back to Him.
Wait, but don't spend your days looking out the window. Rather, find your security and place in God. After-all, it's our job to find you right!?
Also, have heart that there are many guys who don't subscribe to the "purity" way of living, but nonetheless are good and Godly guys.
59) 6/2/08 - Adam (19), Texas, USA
Dear women and young women,
Today, I was watching a young lady in formation. She was a very pretty girl. She had what most girls dream of which is pretty platinum blonde hair, precious blue eyes, snow white smile, and of course she is in shape. She looked so happy on the outside, but I knew she was hurting inside. She was like my mother when I was younger, searching for the truth. Sex can make and break you if used improperly, so I just want to tell everyone who is waiting and who has already had sex and has since decided to wait for marriage to keep on going. Don't be the one who has a stranger inside.
58) 5/1/08 - Andy (19), Florida, USA
Ladies, if you think all us guys are looking for is a girl to "put out," you are wrong. I and others like me have decided to stay pure and abstain from any type of sex until marriage. Don't lower your standards and don't let him pressure him into doing things you do not want to do. I am not looking for some easy girl, I want someone pure like me. God loves all of you.
57) 12/22/06 - Kevin (26), Nova Scotia, Canada
To the good souls of the world: My name is Kevin Wong and I am the author of the Heroes of Destiny trilogy of books. I also firmly believe in saving one's virginity for one's future wife or husband, and that your future wife or husband should and will in turn do the same for you. In my life, and in my books, I try to bring this wholesome message to people, and I am glad that there are many who already have that wholesome message in their hearts. Don't change for anything or anyone. Why should you? You're the good ones. Don't ever forget that.
56) 4/06/05 - Ethan (15), Alabama, USA
I wanted to say that it's awesome to see so many girls practicing this. In school it's extremely hard to find the ones that are. I have been blessed so far with one-she is amazing. I want to inspire all of ya'll to continue. It doesn't matter what's cool or what's not, only the fact that you are bringing glory to the One and Only God that is awesome and ya'll should respect him no matter what anyone else says. And another thing, ya'll do not need makeup, God made you beautiful and you are. I'm sure the person that will or does like you will agree. He likes you for Jesus Christ in your heart not a mask you can put on and take off. You all are amazingly beautiful no matter who tells you otherwise, and if they do, give them my name and address and I'll get `em for ya. But I wanted to thank ya'll for being such strong Christians in this dark age.
55) 3 /17/05 - Nathan (A Father), Iowa, USA
I've tried to start writing this letter for close to twenty minutes. The reason for this being that I want to be positive and to praise those of you who love the Lord and your Christian brothers so much that you will fight the desires to receive attention and decide to behave modestly. Yet, I also think it is imperative to show you the effect of immodest behavior on the men/boys around you. Sometime close to my eleventh birthday, my brother and one of his friends showed me a hardcore pornography magazine they had found. Throughout my adolescence and early adulthood, whenever I saw a girl/woman in revealing dress, I would consciously and unconsciously imagine that girl/woman in the same poses I saw in that magazine. When I was younger and still an unbeliever, it stoked my sexual desires. Now, it is a torment. And, I am not alone in this. I have heard several men in my congregation comment on the immodest dress of some of the college and high school age girls that at end our services. Men even in their 50s and 60s!!! So please, I exhort you: stay strong concerning your modesty. You who declare yourself a Purity Girl will be the friends and guideposts to my nine year old daughter. And you will always have the respect, thanksgiving, and prayers of one single father who pray he wont need to stumble anymore.
54) 3 /10/05 - Jonathan (18), USA
I was really encouraged by reading some of the other letters here and I felt that I had to share. Its so easy and so tempting to fall in step with all those around you. I've been guilty of it myself more than once. Rejecting the things of this world and truly living for God isn't an easy task and there are the times when you just feel so alone, like you're the only one struggling and you're the only one trying to truly live for God.
You're not alone.. The enemy tries so hard to make us feel that way. Don't. There are other young people out there just like you who know and seek the truth and who give their all to follow Christ. God has an absolutely incredible plan for you and the scary thing is.. You can turn it down. That's your choice to make.
Think carefully about the influence you have on those around you. As Christians its not something to ever be taken lightly. We'll never know how many people are really watching us to see whether there truly is light in us.. or not.
It may not seem like it, but there are still guys out there who are praying for God to bring the right girl into their lives and are praying for it to be done, or not, in His time. They won't judge you by what you wear or how you look. God doesn't do that and neither do His children.
..*sigh*.. stay strong sisters. God has a wonderful plan for you. All you have to do is reach out and claim it with all your hearts, trust God, obey him, and he will bless you. Don't ever let one of us tell you that you're not worth it. God made you and you're worth the world to him.
53) 2 /21/05 - Justin (18), Illinois, USA
dear girls. I'm getting ready to go to college for preaching ministry and just wanted to thank all the girls form the bottom of my heart for their trust in god and strength to stay pure. It is so hard to find pure a pure woman of god in today's world where culture in America promote exactly the opposite. I don't even think that I have ever met a decent woman with a heart for the lord. Thanks for your perseverance and for being a shining light in the darkness.
52) 2 /13/05 - Lio (25), Oklahoma, USA
Wow. This site has been a great encouragement to me because of my commitment to stay pure for my future wife. To the "Purity Girls" out there, THERE ARE GUYS WHO ARE WAITING LIKE YOU! You don't know how beautiful it is for you to keep your virginity and intimacy for your future husband. I know it's hard not to date (if you choose not to) because sometimes you feel like you're missing out when you see all the "happy couples" out there. What you don't see is all the fighting, hurting, and heartbreak that many of those couples go through, just to end up dating someone else. So keep up the good fight of faith, and be encouraged that members of the opposite sex are like you, working on becoming EVERYTHING they want in a mate! All in God's perfect timing...
51) 12/20/04 -A.P (26), Florida, USA
I know that only guys are supposed to write messages, but I hope you'll put mine up because God has laid it on my heart to share this message. Girls, I really encourage you to read the modesty survey and think carefully about how you dress. Homosexuality is a big struggle for me, and when I see women dressed in short skirts, tiny swimsuits, low cut jeans, etc., it's just as hard for me as it is for your Christian brothers. Girls wear sexy clothes to my church all the time and I know that if it is a distraction for me, it must be keeping the guys from being able to concentrate on the Lord. Recently a girl wore very tight jeans to church and sat right in front of me, so every time we stood up to sing there was this view in front of me creating a complete distraction. I had to close my eyes the whole time I was singing. Whether this girl intended to look sexy or just didn't understand how the way she was dressed affected others was irrelevant- she caused me to stumble (and I couldn't help but think of the times I wore jeans that were too tight and undoubtedly caused the same reaction from someone). I know I don't want that burden on my conscience. I just wanted to share my experience because I am in the rare position of wanting to wear the cute, trendy clothes and also understanding firsthand the ungodly lust that those clothes arouse. The struggle is between the flesh and the spirit, but we as women have much more control over helping others win their battles than we give ourselves credit for.
50) 11/24/04 - Mitch, Tennessee, USA
To all of the ladies who have embraced these values and lifestyle, I encourage you to stay focused and fellowship with others who share your values and commitment! I was raised in a Christian family but went off on my own for a few years...I was in a "Hair Band" in the mid-to-late 80's, and though I was not into the drugs, alcohol, or the sexual promiscuity, the conviction from the Holy Spirit was a lifesaver! I saw it all, and the reality is that most of the "party crowd" and "hip" were actually very unhappy and searching for something that they couldn't find in a bottle, can, or glass...or from another person. Only Christ can fill the void and I praise Him and thank all of you for your purity and the wonderful example that you show others! Having been surrounded by negative influences, I can testify that no matter how old you are, or what you've been through or have been exposed to... you can walk away, take a stand, and say NO. I have been sexually pure for 15 years ars now, and previously had my own ministry which was directed at teens and the issues they face with peer pressure, media influences, and their walk with God. Ladies, you are all a light that shines blindingly bright in a very dark world! Thanks Again, and Thanks to "Purity Girl" for taking such a stand. You all are WORTH THE WAIT!
49) 11/24/04 - Todd (27), Texas, USA
I want to encourage all of you ladies to keep up the difficult and trying fight of being a Purity girl and remaining true to yourself and to your Heavenly Father. It is difficult to do in the face of such media that blasts females showing skin and sex all over the place every time you turn around. You have chosen the more difficult road and trust me, what in the end is going to be the more rewarding one. You will find a man that is going to cherish every moment with you and who will help further you in your walk of faith. Keep up your courageous and admirable walks in faith. If you get discouraged remember the beginning of Psalm 42 "I waited patiently for the Lord, he inclined and heard my cry."
48) 11/19/04 - Ryan (21), California, USA
(In response to Matthew's letter) I totally agree with you. I'm all for being against this culture because quite frankly this culture directly opposes God's Word and I can only have one master (my master being Jesus Christ for those who aren't sure where I was going with this). As for that 1 in a billion girl, sorry bro, I already found her. She is completely in love with the Lord, completely pure (I'm talking about not even holding hands till she was almost 20), and will someday be an even better wife, God willing.
Girls, you have no idea how evil a guy's heart is. And if you were to cause one of us guys to stumble it would be better for you to tie a rock around your neck and drown yourself in the ocean (Matt 18:6, Mark 9:42, Luke 17:2.) God takes sin sooo seriously and especially if you are causing someone else to sin. Please, save showing yourself off for your husband. If you don't, you are stealing from him because someday his body will be yours and your body will be his (1 Cor. 7:4.) The way you dress will determine what type of guy you will draw. A godly man will pass you by if it looks like you belong in a strip club and a worldly man will pass you by if you dress modestly because he will feel like you won't give him anything. Hope this helps.
47) 11/16/04 - K (15), Texas, USA
To the girls who fight the good fight:
Thank you.....An honest, sincere, expression of gratitude is in order..... First and foremost, thank you for taking a weight off of my mind to strive to stay pure in mind- Even the best of us struggle when there is a young woman dressed promiscuously. You truly do take a burden off of us guys that really have to try hard. I realize that this is hard for you- But stand proud in that your are standing bold in the face of oppression of common ideals for something better, something right, something worthy of recognition. And I recognize you today.
To my wife, where ever you are- I am praying for you.....I think about you often. I ask that you would pray for me, so that I might more aptly keep a pure heart and mind for you. I dress modestly, so that when I meet you, you will see through the skin's depth and into my heart. I try to keep my eyes for you alone.....and though I fail often, I will keep trying- for you. I promise you my physical purity- and I pray that you are saving your for me. I can only pray that God grants me the power to keep myself from losing your gift.
46) 11/10/04 - Doug (24), Minnesota, USA
Ladies, I just want to let all of you know how phenomenal it is to know that not everyone has fallen prey to the lures of popular culture and the pressure of romance and lust. I work with a group of seven or eight teenage girls, and I really believe that each and every one of them could learn a thing or two from people like you! It warms my heart to know that you have put Christ before boys (or men), and I congratulate you! Keep strong, keep your faith, and keep on being yourself!
45) 10/26/04 - Eli (19), Indianapolis, USA
This website is awesome!!!! I am so encouraged by knowing that there are girls out there who are trying to live up to God's standard of Purity. "Not Even a Hint" That's what I'm trying to be and that's what I'm looking for.
44) 10/03/04 - Matthew (23), Pennsylvania, USA
ATTENTION: ALL RADICAL LOVERS OF JESUS CHRIST!!
Well, I'm finishing up college and I created a T-shirt saying "MODEST GIRLS ROCK." I have worn this shirt all around and have had great reviews! With the way our generation dresses, I felt I should do something counter-cultural.
Anyway...Attention all radical Christian girls (by radical I mean, totally in love with Jesus, filled with His awesome Spirit, feeling His tangible presence and not having a love for money), I am praying for a 1 in a 6 Billion, jewel, diamond, ruby kind of wife! One that is soo genuine in her craziness and freedom in God's Spirit according to the Word of God, trusting in the Lord with all her heart, delighting in the Lord...I could go on and on. Just please seek to be saturated by His Spirit.
I want to be a 1 in a 6 Billion guy for you and I pray that the Lord leads you to this website to read my writings to you, wherever you may be. Wouldn't that be awesome, when we meet in the future that you have already read this letter! Wherever my future wife is, I would like to tell you something: Wait for me, trust Jesus Christ; let's wait for each other. God didn't take us this far to leave us. Keep praying for me as I pray for you!!! These qualities are very important to me, and trust me I want to have them too!!
43) 8/24/04 - Kris (18), Houston, TX, USA
I was nearly in tears after reading the letters on PurityGuys.com and this site. I have been so inspired to become a Purity Guy because deep inside I've always wanted a Purity Girl. Not too long ago my long-distance girlfriend ended our relationship. I cried because I thought I loved her, to the point that I wanted to marry her, but now I know that the relationship just wasn't right. I've decided that I want to wait on Gods timing to send me that special Purity Girl that I can love, marry, and cherish.
Thanks to all you Purity Girls out there for sticking with Jesus, dressing modestly, and waiting on Gods timing! God Bless you all!
42) 8/22/04 - Don (23), Australia
It is great to hear so many girls standing up to be Godly women, and not bowing to pressure put on them to live worldly lives. The guy that you'll want to marry will respect you for not flashing skin, and will admire your stance on not putting out!! Seriously! Also, the less you worry about guys, and the more you concern yourself with the work of the Lord, the more you'll attract the guys looking for faithful and Godly women!! Rock on daughters of the most high!
41) 8/18/04 - Cody (20), Tennessee, USA
Hey, I just wanted to say how awesome this site is and to encourage you to keep fighting the good fight. Don't settle for anything less than what God has planned for you, and remember that there are Godly guys out there who want to love you for who you are.
You don't know how awesome it is to hear about girls dedicated to dressing modestly and pursuing God rather than the worlds idea of what you should be. Thank you.
40) 8/06/04 - Andrew (19), South Dakota, USA
Just wanted to let you girls know that you are amazing and keep on being what God made you to be. It might even get tough sometimes. I know so many girls that give up on their standards so quickly and fall for what they know is wrong. Stick to the strait and narrow. I don't know too many girls that really truly strive for that.
I had the privilege of reading some of the letters on PurityGuys.com and I can tell you in complete honesty they represent what I am looking for in a woman. The letters really encourages me to keep on searching for that one that was made for me and I for her. You girls are amazing. I will continue to honor you and serve you in everyday I can.
39) 7/26/04 - Keith (23), Alabama, USA
Wow, what a blessing it was for me to stumble upon this website today. It is a huge encouragement for me to know that there are women out there passionate about pleasing Jesus with the way they dress, act, and wait for God's man for them.
I guess the word that I wanted to share with you PurityGirls is to not loose heart. Like anyone reading this message I remember times when I felt lonely/discouraged while waiting for my PurityGirl I can remember calling out to the Lord during those times and saying something like, "OK, God, whenever you're ready."
I'm still single but I can look back on those times and see how God has consistently met me right where I was. God has not only continued to prepare me to be the Godly husband that my wife deserves, but He has grown a heart of love in me for a woman I don't even know.
As you continue on the path that Jesus has placed you on, I hope that you will continue to allow Him to mold you into a woman after His own heart. Don't lose heart, there is a Godly guy out there that Jesus is going to bless your socks off with. Who knows, it might even be me.
Pressing On,
Keith
38) 7/22/04 - Tyler (22), USA
I would like to say thank you to all of you who have been faithful in the eyes of God. It is wonderful to know in this crazy mixed up world that there are those of ya'll who will take a stand and I respect any girl who stands up for what she believes in. And I pray for those who wont stand up. Your future husband and God will thank you. Thanx- BQueens are so very special to find these days. Incredible, seeing you all on fire for God, taking a stand, not looking for someone to come congratulate you, but rather live knowing that the example you set a select few will follow. So many people replace there love of God with a man or a woman, get married, and find one morning that they have been sleeping with a monster, instead of the man or woman that God intended you to be with that you couldn't wait on. People say, "how do you know then if you aren't dating?" The answer lies away from that mountain of a question. Faith in God the size of a mustard seed will move that mountain. Focus on God and forget about who, what, when, and where, and cast your burden on Him, cause He knows us better than we know ourselves. He knows our sitting down and our uprising the Word says. You will find Him when you seek Him with your whole heart.
Praising Him for sisters in Christ,
Your brother,
Tyler
37) 7/11/04 - Benjamin Towner (19), Texas, USA
I would like to say thank you to all of you who have been faithful in the eyes of God. It is wonderful to know in this crazy mixed up world that there are those of ya'll who will take a stand and I respect any girl who stands up for what she believes in. And I pray for those who wont stand up. Your future husband and God will thank you.
Thanx- Ben
36) 7/11/04 - Andrew (16), Alabama, USA
Hey ya, I just want to say that I thank all you "PurityGirls" out there. Guys struggle with so much stuff because we are "visual" and our eyes just tend to wonder. I just thank all purity girls for making a commitment to dress modestly and stay pure. It helps us guys out and it helps ya out too. Thanks!
35) 6/08/04 - Joshua (20), Florida, USA
I just want to drop a very sincere letter of encouragement and thanks to all the Purity girls out there. I commend you all for being Purity girls and standing up for what you believe in in this dark world. It's so great to know that there are girls out there who know where true beauty lies (and for those of you who don't, it's your heart, your mind, your personality, and your spirituality, NOT your body). Keep strong and don't give in. You're beautiful and you are unique, God says so. I can't wait to find my Purity Girl, wherever she may be. I thank God that you have taken a stand against mainstream views of sexuality. I'm saving myself for the girl that God chooses for me, and I pray that she is waiting for me. God bless you all!
34) 4/08/04 - Taylor (16), Ontario, Canada
Hey, just wanted to say that I am new to the faith, a Christian as of today at 4:32 and I plan to save myself for my future wife, take care.
33) 4/03/04 - Greg (25), Virginia, USA
"Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be Praised." -Proverbs 31:30
I am so thankful for young ladies (all of you) who are willing to go against what the world says in order to love and obey your first Love. I know beauty is something that’s so easily seen on the outside. When my eyes come across a girl that is the first thing I see, that’s just the way it is.
But if a girl has decided to walk in His Will she shows the most important beauty there is! And that is something that has such awesome attractiveness to me because I’m looking for more than just beauty that will fade away. But beauty that will endure all things and love unconditionally is something I treasure. I won't lie I'm attracted to beautiful girls that’s part of God’s creation. And at the same time I need help from all of you to keep my mind pure and holy. But better than outside beauty is when I’m privileged enough to see the true beauty of a girl living her life according to His purpose. One who will give up her own life to let God live through it. That is what guys like me are looking for. I am encouraged by all of you, seeing and hearing about all of you living a life that is pleasing to God. He is the first and foremost we should be shaping our lives around. I would like to encourage all of you to continue fighting the good fight. And pursue only that which is holy and true. And when you meet that special man, he will know your heart longs for God first, then him. He will know this by what he has seen inside expressed outwardly.
“Only when you truly die will you truly live in faith. Are you dying to live?” Is He your passion- you’re His! Thanks for living out what you believe!
32) 4/02/04 - PFC Wittmer (19), California, USA
Up until about 3 years ago girls weren't a concern to me. Since then I have had a problem finding a good girl. Some girl out there who is into God as much as I am. People keep telling me that ill find one and that every girl is looking for a youth pastor. But that's not true. Girls should be looking for a guy that draws them closer to god every day. I know that I am looking for a girl, in which the relationship is directed toward God alone. A girl that makes me happy because I know she draws me nearer to God than she does to herself. Good luck to you all that you find some guy like that. God Bless and Semper Fi.
31) 3/15/04 - Galen (19), Texas, USA
I am heartened and encouraged that there are girls out there who are taking a stand for purity, for passion (for God), and for modesty. You know, I really can't say anything that hasn't been said before (and probably better), so... hmmm. Why am I doing this again? :P Stay pure. I am.
30) 3/13/04 - Joe-John, Illinois, USA
I just wanna say that PurityGirls and PurityGuys ROCK!! I just read the sonnet that was written and it really encouraged me to stop trying to get mine. GO GOD!
29) 3/12/04 - Guido (23), Holland
How encouraging. It just quiets me.......... must say that this all is fairly new to me. Father is shaping my beliefs and stands...I think I don't no anyone as radical and pure as you all are. That gives me doubt sometimes. In the past I made mistakes but Father protected me for too much damage. I actually enjoy more than ever being single and focusing on God, and I'm getting more and more excited about this Way, it's the only way to complete, full happiness. No compromise. Please pray for me! I wonder how many Purity Girls there are in holland...fantastic! Thank You Lord.
28) 3/7/04 - Sam (18), Washington, USA
You know something, it is interesting what God does. Just today I was talking to a friend of mine about girls. We were both lamenting the fact that girls that are on fire for God and seek purity are so hard to find. I was so glad to have the opportunity of seeing all of the letters from girls that have decided to commit, before God and man, to purity; not only their own, but guy's too! I am so grateful for girls like ya'll that want to dress so that guys don't have to worry about their eyes around you! THANKS SOOOOO MUCH!!!
I would like to recommend that you read a letter another good friend of mine wrote, Devin Swecker. He says some stuff as a challenge to girls. Now I know that you have already all made a commitment to purity, however, I thought you might find it encouraging to read a letter from a real man that seeks God's purity. God bless you all!!!!
A not-so-perfect guy that wants Gods will, righteousness, and purity, Sam
27) 3/4/04 - PJ (14), Minnesota, USA
Hey, I just wanted to let you know that well I really thank you so much for being modest and saving yourself for your husband. I think your husband and all the guys that you meet will really REALLY respect you for that, and I just thank you. This IS the right thing to do and I'll be praying for all of you. Keep up the good work. God bless all of you.
In Christ,
PJ
26) 2/17/04 - MJ (17), USA
Greetings all, It's so encouraging to know that there are so many out there who continue to make a stand for God. This Valentine's Day, I wrote a sonnet for my youth group, to encourage them that, regardless of whether you date with someone you 'love', God loves you anyway. So I thought I'd share it with you as an encouragement, here goes:
Yesterday was Valentines Day
Perhaps some of you got roses,
or cards, or chocolate, or sweet candy, or dinner with your chosen.
Maybe yours was like a fairy-tale,
a day of special closeness,
a day on which dreams prosper, not fail, a time of sentimental deeds.
But if you, like me, got none of these,
and mayhap, on principle, this whole thing you disdain,
a Valentines greeting I extend to thee, and to you, this I would say --
Look back at the good things in life, indeed at every hour,
and be comforted - didn't you notice that God's been sending you flowers!
So, seriously, be encouraged - there are heaps of guys out there who admire you immensely for the stands you are taking, and even more importantly - God thinks you are brilliant!
Farewell, and God Bless,
MJ
25) 2/16/04 - Jason (20), USA
Hey, don't plan too far ahead. Walk at the speed God planned for you... Friendship and fellowship is one of the greatest gift God has ever given to us, cherish it!
24) 1/31/04 - Steve (18), Iowa, USA
Corey (age 19 from North Carolina), said it all very well..."Spiritually hot" is the most important. Guys WANT relationships with Purity girls. I have had my best relationships with young women of similar beliefs. I am a student at ISU and I see alot of pretty girls. However, it is not so easy to find women like those who read this. The beliefs of a Purity girl will get you the right guy with out all the heartache in the end. Stay strong in the Lord and let Him be your strength!
23) 1/30/04 - Jackson (17), Florida, USA
Hello Purity girls! It is so comforting to know that there are girls out there who believe in the same things that I do. Our world has created such a downfall, that it is great that all of you take a stand for what you believe in, and declare it with your actions. Stay strong and don't think it is all right to not dress modestly, just because of television. I wait for my Purity girl. Stay strong, and stand up for yourself.
22) 1/18/04 - David (18), Illinois, USA
Let me just say WOW!!! I love to see so many girls SO committed to God and purity. It is so refreshing to me. I live in a college dorm with freshmen and sophomores and the way most people act and present themselves makes me sad.
I was just reading letters that girls have posted to guys and I broke down and wept to God. I have "claimed" to lead a pure life but when no one is watching, that was something else. I would know that what I did was wrong and I would hate myself for it and I would try to do better by myself. Of course that did not work. The only way I can do it is through God.
Like one girl wrote, Guys are told by society that being pure is not "cool". But in my Christian group here on campus, I have met some guys who are truly committed to God in everything. What is really cool is that in that same group I have girl friends that I truly view as sisters. I would do anything for them and they are truly committed to God and their love for him is awesome.
I recently broke up with my first girlfriend. I was not too shook up over it, but I was a little. Then my sister, who is definitely a Purity girl, told me that she did not think we should have gotten together because she knew marriage was not where this was heading, and the time I spent with her was taking time away from my time with God. So now like a true Purity guy I am not going to date till I find that one girl that God has sent for me to marry and seek after my first true love, God.
I ask that you would pray that I will be able to keep my vow of purity.
21) 1/4/04 - Aaron (19), Illinois, USA
Hey girls! This site is so awesome! It is great to see so many girls taking this stand! God has awesome plans for all of you, just wait on His timing. You gals rock!
20) 12/15/03 - Aaron (17), Florida, USA
Wow! That's all I have to say. I'm sure this has been said many times. But I think it is awesome that over 200 girls have decided to value themselves, and their relationship with God. When I first heard the song, I always thought "I hope I can find a Purity girl, someone who shares the same ideals as me." When I found this site with all the awesome role models, I was ecstatic! You girls should definitely keep the way you are. There are a lot of distractions that want to keep you from doing what is in God's plan. I pray that you all can keep the strength to hold out and find that perfect someone that not only can make you feel awesome, but can help you grow in your faith and walk with Christ. PS It's OK to be a little crazy in your faith; 2 Corinthians 5:13- "If we are out of our minds, it is for the sake of the Lord."
19) 12/11/03 - Corey (19), North Carolina, USA
Wowzers, it's great to know there are all these SPIRITUALLY HOT girls out there. It's one thing to be physically hot, but when you're spiritually hot and mentally hot, it's so much more attractive! I want a valentine from a Purity Girl! It's heartbreaking to show my Christian friends Scripture about saving your heart for the One and treating the opposite sex as siblings (1 Tim 5:1-2), and they just say it's not for them or whatever. Yall are a great encouragement for me. There are girls waiting out there! Woo hoo! I can't wait to get married (in God's time). My wife will be so spiritually hot! yow!
Love ya sisses, †il the whole world hears,
Corey
18) 11/10/03 - Luke (29), Maryland, USA
Hey Purity girls! Don't overlook the shy guys! We'd really like to be friends, but don't know how to break the ice. Be confident in yourself -- dress modestly! Let your love for God shine through; it's better than make-up. There's a guy out there waiting for you. Let God bring you together!
17) 9/26/03 - Claudiu (18), California, USA
First of all, I want to thank all you girls who do dress modestly. I just started college this week, and it's quite difficult to walk down a street because many girls don't dress modestly and I have to avoid the temptation to lust. However, I do find solace in knowing girls who are true to Jesus in the way they act, dress, apply make up, etc. As a final note, I recommend that you girls don't wear makeup (unless it's because it's fun to do so), you really are beautiful the way you are and the one who God has prepared for you will see that. God bless!
16) 8/20/03 - Jay (19) Massachusetts, USA
Hey girls. Just another guy posting here letting you know that there are guys out there who are committed to staying pure until marriage...or at least trying to. I have major issues with lust because of my past with pornography and the such, and it's nearly impossible to get out of, even now. But thank God I am still a virgin, and I really do appreciate that there are Christian girls out there watching what they wear and not being this huge turn-on and all flirty around guys (and then the next second acting like "what did we do" when a guy flirts back, lol).
I have never been on a date or had a girlfriend, but just like some girls here, I want my first to be the one and only, and I know God will bring her to me, and the same for you! :) God Bless!
15) 8/20/03 - Andy (23), Iowa, USA
I can't wait to find my Purity Girl, wherever she may be. I thank God that you have taken a stand against mainstream views of sexuality. I'm saving myself for the girl that God chooses for me, and I pray that she is waiting for me. God bless you all!
14) 8/20/03 - Joel (17) Canada
Hey, I'm Joel and I just want to let all the girls reading this that it's awesome to read about girls saving themselves. I am sickened and saddened by all the 13 year old boys and girls out there having sex.
I am still a virgin and I have been tempted so many times to have sex and it's nice to know that there are girls out there who look at the guy not just the package. I hate it when girls who are so beautiful yet are so slutty.
I encourage everyone to save yourselves for your husband or wife because it will be so much better. There are guys out here like my self and a few of my friends who are looking for girls like you. Those guys might be hard to find, but its sooooooooo worth it.
Peace and God Bless,
Joel
13) 8/4/03 - Jacob (19) Iowa, USA
This might start off sounding bad, but I think most people are pretty stupid and that is why sex sells. That is also why whenever I see a "shy" girl or you know a girl who is modest about her body, I think that she is smarter than the rest and is wise to submit herself to God's values. This is SOOOO comforting to us guys trust me!!! All we see are these dumb chicks who grab all the attention, but you DO get noticed in some guy's spotlight. Keep on keeping on and prize your values, they are a wonderful, flawless gift that God has given you for a wonderful plan. God bless you all.
12) 7/29/03 - Dan (22) Ohio, USA
I think that it is great to know that there are both girls and guys out there that have stood for purity and waiting for marriage. It is encouraging to see that not only I am doing so. I think modesty is way better than being immodest because it makes people stumble and lose track of Christ. A verse I try to lean on is 1 Cor. 10:31-33- "Whatever you do, don't cause your brother to stumble."
11) 5/22/03 - Christopher (16) Iowa, USA
Hey girls. I just want to tell you all to keep pressing on and stick in there through all of it. I know you may not get the attention some other girls get for the way they dress but one thing that always gets my attention is a girl who dresses respectfully and loves God. That's what I'm looking for in a girl, someone who respects herself and won't drop herself to that level just to get attention or a boyfriend. I've never had a girlfriend, but when I do get one, I want her to be a Purity Girl! So hang in there, there'll come a day when some Christian guy out there will notice you and see you for the precious gift you are and when he does, you'll see that it's all worth it. So hang in there and stick it out! God bless you all.
10) 4/23/03 - Ezra (14) Alaska, USA
I just wanted to say thanks! It is so hard now a days to find a girl that is pure and doesn't go around acting like she is going to sell her body. Keep up the good work!
9) 2/19/03 - Billy (16) Washington, USA
Hi. I just wanna let all the Purity Girls out there know that I'm in love with one of you. I don't know who, God hasn't told me yet. But I promise to wait and pray for you until He does, because you're the one He's preparing for me, and me for you. Don't ever sell yourself short, God has a perfect plan for your life. Psalm 37:4 says "Delight thyself also in the Lord, and He shall give thee the desires of thine heart..." and He's got the perfect guy for you out there, even if it doesn't seem like it right now. Be patient, we're still growing up. God bless.
8) 1/21/03 - Jay (16) New York, USA
Hey girls, I think it's really great you want to stay pure for your future husbands. I, as a guy, and striving for purity myself---I am also not ashamed to say that I am waiting for marriage until I have sex---Anyways, just want to encourage you and tell you there are still some decent guys out there and just to continue to stay pure---thank you to my friend Nina Lou---I love you.
7) 12/28/02 - Joshua (25) Arizona, USA
I really think it is cool to see girls that are so open and honest about not dating. I really like the idea too. I used to want to date, but never really tried to really get into the dating scene, and I am glad I didn't. I prefer to focus on God without having another distraction. Let me explain. I have friends that are girls, and when I wanted to date, I was distracted from God. I really want to focus on God, and I know if I do, that He will bring someone into my life for marriage. To see girls that avoid dating, and really want to wait until they find the right guy for sure to even kiss, that is really encouraging, and I respect that, especially with all the dating out there. I even think that is a great way to minister, because I have met several nonbelievers that really to think very highly of not-so-pure girls, and girls that have dated a lot of guys. I am a Christian, so I am all for abstinence also.
6) 12/17/02 - Matthew (21) Pennsylvania, USA
God is soo good. I have been totally seeking His Face for the past 2 years and becoming intimate with our Father! I used to be a high school quarterback flirting with girls. But I never filled the void in life by doing that. The Lord humbled me and totally opened my eyes to who He is, and how extremely awesome He is. I can't get enough of knowing Him. His presence, the weight of His Glory! I find it totally awesome that there are girls out there waiting for the ONE GOD will bring them! Since I totally committed to Jesus 2 years ago, I have done a 180 (by His Grace)and have chosen purity! I don't date...yuck what a distraction dating can be when one is running after the eternal GOD! I have prayed for my future wife (wherever she is) for the past 7 months. I pray on and off for her, that the fruits of God's Spirit would be manifested in her life! There are times though that I enjoy being single! More of God, More of His Presence! More Church services! I want Him to abide in me! So Ladies there are men out there that are going totally after the living God through His Son Jesus Christ...I love the churches that I go to! Our generation of kids at this one church are totally sold out..dancing in God's presence, being free in worship because of their genuine love for the Lord. Raising their hands...etc. It seems like we all have DAVID'S heart from the Bible....because were going after God's own heart. Jesus Rules!
PS Girls when you go to church, or Christian conferences...DON'T skim around the place with your eyeballs trying to "look for the one" Focus on your Dad in Heaven, get crazy for Jesus, and then in His timing you will be given the man that you have been praying for!...Don't let anyone tell you otherwise...God knows our desires...
5) 11/14/02 - Justin (18) Colorado, USA
I first off would like to applaud you ladies, for going against the flow, for living for the only man that truly matters. You have grasped hold of the concept that He created you so beautifully, that he created you in His image. You don't need the scandalous clothing, and all the other things that our society says are "beautiful". You ladies are truly beautiful, because you shine with the joy and love of the Lord. It is so encouraging to know that out there are ladies living out there, not to please us, but to please their father. Thank you so much for doing that. It makes it easier for me, and for us guys trying to stay pure. But more importantly it tells us that there is a reason for staying pure. Most guys don't understand my commitment to purity, to abstinence, and most importantly the beautiful woman that God has created especially for me. I've yet to meet her, but knowing that she's out there, staying pure for me, makes me want to stay pure for her. Thank you ladies, you truly are amazing.
4) 11/12/02 - Ellis (15) Washington, USA
Hi, I just wanted to say that I think this site and those who are are on it and are members rock! I'm a Purity Guy and want to encourage all the Purity Girls out there. I worry sometimes that girls think that all guys are jerks and act like them like most guys do. There are Purity guys out there. Purity and a desire to serve God are the MOST important qualities that there can be in girls (in all people actually). I encourage you to stick with it even though I know a lot of guys are jerks. I don't date and I don't want to until I know who the right girl is. I try my hardest to stay pure (even though it is hard). I don't even want to kiss a girl until I get married (or at least know who the right one is. Thanks for giving me this space!
3) 11/5/02 - Mike(19) California, USA
Don't worry, we notice you and pray for you often. To every girl out there who is deciding to save herself, I have more respect for you than you will ever know. There are so few of you that when I actually find one I can't help but say a little prayer for her and thank God for her.
I decided not to date as I was going into high school (I am a freshman in college now), and so I have never been on a date, kissed or ever told anyone I loved them.
I plan to stay that way till God leads me to one of you. Until then, just know that even though every girl that dresses as little as she can and is never without a boyfriend, and seems to get all the attention, that one guy who will treasure only you as the amazing gift from God that you are, is out there waiting and praying just as hard for you, trying to be patient.
Please never give in...I have seen plenty of friends give in and it is the saddest thing, especially when I see them a few years later and they have gone from this amazing strong woman of God, to just like every other pretty girl out there. Stay strong. And to my wife, I am praying for you and I will wait forever for you if that is what God wants.
2) 9/17/02 - Ken (Father) Illinois, USA
I found this site while looking for Superchic(k) info. They and Audio Adrenaline are my 2 favorite groups. And best of all, my 6 year old daughter actually likes Superchic(k) better than Britney Spears! She almost died when I brought home a poster from a Superchic(k) concert that Tricia and Melissa autographed for her.
I'm trying hard to raise her to be a Purity Girl. This site is awesome and all you Purity Girls are awesome. You're a living example that you can live by Christian values and still have fun. Keep it up. Little girls really look up to older girls, and with people like Britney Spears selling sex everyday, they need all the positive examples they can get.
1) From John OH, USA
Purity Girls, I just think you all are so awesome, I wish that I could get to meet all of you. Superchic[k] is my favorite band because I love their music and they inspire people to start things like this. I believe that they have all been blessed by God with amazing talent, and like them we all need to use our talents to bring more people to God and away from the temptations of the evil one. Keep your bodies holy because they are the temples of Jesus Christ. Set an example for others in your Christian lifestyle. Remember that God is with you always. Consider it pure joy, my sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Blessed is she who perseveres under trial, because when she has stood the test, she will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him. -James 1:2-3,12